Tuesday

What Happened To Confidence?

I was speaking at an event last night, and I was amazed at what I had seen. Here was a group of people who truly wanted to succeed. People who sold an image. Yet, most of these people were nothing like the image they were trying to sell. These people had dreams, goals, things they wanted to accomplish. Yet very few of them honestly believed they deserved it or could actually have it.

I look around at people now days and I have to ask, what happened to confidence? In our society today, we have thousands of people telling us who and what to be. Family, friends, the media, magazines, music, athletes, stars. All we have to do is open our eyes and we will see people telling us who and what to be. We have lost the drive to be who we wish to be, who we want to be ourselves.

Especially when working with the law of attraction, we all need to make sure that we love ourselves. That we have a healthy relationship with ourselves. We have to develop the self esteem of knowing that we are perfect as we already are, and be ok with that person. Then we can develop the confidence to be ok with being wrong, being right, simply being.

If you aren't ok with who you are, no one else will be. You must love yourself before anyone else will love you. Develop the ability to be ok with who you are right now. You must also develop the ability to be grateful and happy for who and what you currently are in order to start manifesting and attracting the life you want to live.

Work on your confidence. Develop your self esteem. Work on being the type of person who deserves what you want to have. The type of person who believes they deserve what it is you want.

The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert

Thursday

What If?

I am sure that many of you have heard this question before, but I feel it needs to be repeated, and repeated, and repeated until people start taking it seriously. The question is simple, "what if you found out you were dieing?"

It's a hard question for many people to ask because people want to avoid and stay distracted from the fact that we are all dieing. I can sympathize with them, but I never did get it. But to each their own. Here is why it's an important question, and probably one of the most valuable ones you can ask.

First of all, we are all going to die no matter how much we avoid it or stay distracted from it. Ignoring it doesn't make it go away any more than ignoring the alligator knawing on your leg will make it go away.

Realizing that you are going to die causes you to open and realize that you have to live because your time is limited, and you never know how limited it is. It forces you to take responsibility for your life on a daily basis and make sure that you are spending each and every moment to your fullest potential.

So ask yourself, "what if I were dieing? What would I do? How would I live?" Ask yourself, and start taking action immediately. Knowing that you are going to die, and admitting it, causes you to realize that you must start taking action today. This is why I created the Wealthy Life Secrets program. To help people learn how to manifest, create, and attract the life of their dreams in the shortest amount of time possible.

Start living like you were dieing, because you are. Each and every breathe we waste on useless thoughts, actions, words, or anything else is a breathe we will never get back. Use each breathe wisely, laugh as much as possible, love deeper than you ever imagined you could, and chase your heart and your dreams with all of your being.

The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert

Monday

You Learn Based On What You Are Ready To Learn

Every 2-3 years I take the time to read specific books that I have already read before. There is a hand full of books that I think is important, at least for me, to read over and over again in order to keep growing.

What amazes me is that every single time I read these books, no matter how many times I read these books, I always get something completely new and completely different from these books. The books themselves haven't changed. They remain the same.

What has changed is me. I have changed. So every time I read these books, I am amazed at how much I pick up.

It's important for you to realize that no matter where you are in your learning and understanding, you will only ever get and learn what you are ready to learn. You might have heard something a thousand times, but it might be the 1001 time that you get the lesson behind what is said.

We are always only ever going to learn and understand what we are ready to understand based on where we are. It's important for you to keep growing and learning. Most people never go back and read or learn lessons they have learned before simply because they believe they have learned all that is possible from those lessons.

There is always another level to go. No matter what you have learned, there is always a deeper level to learn about. A next step, or a next phase. Even as something as simple as walking has more to teach and learn about. Just walking alone has balance, muscle movement, joint structure and movement, body dynamics, and much, much more to teach us. All this just from walking.

If this is true about walking, imagine what other things in your life have to teach you that you haven't learned yet. Be willing to open up and realize that no matter what you think you know or have learned, there is always more to learn.

The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert

Friday

Wealth Is About Doing What Others Won't

This morning I went to bed at 2:30am. I was back up at 7am to get my son ready to go to school. Shortly after dropping him off at the front door, I found myself crawling back into bed to get some more rest instead of starting my day.

After a few minutes, I couldn't get my head to stop spinning as I thought about all the things I had to get done today. So I drug myself back out from under the warm, cozy, comfortable covers and went to get started on the long, never ending list of things that I have to do every day.

After hours of work, I finally got to the task on my list of writing a blog and I wondered what I would write about, and came to the conclusion that this was a good topic that many people need to think about.

Often times success is about doing those things that others won't do. It's getting out of bed and going on much less sleep than most people in order to do what needs to be done. It's doing those things that are uncomfortable when we would rather be doing something else instead.

Rich and successful people often times become successful and rich by what they do in their spare time in a garage, or a house office, or a dorm room. Develop the habit to do what others won't do, and success will surely be a part of your daily experience.

Wednesday

The Law Of Attraction And Mental Management

When working with the law of attraction, many people have trouble due to one simple concept. Their inability to manage their thoughts.

In order to get the best results with the law of attraction, it's important to learn how to manage your thoughts and your emotions. Those who think like losers will get loser results. Those who think like winners get winner results.

We must all learn to recognize when we are using poor thinking. When we are thinking in a way that does not serve where we want to go. If there is something you want, you must focus on using thoughts that are in alignment with what you want to accomplish.

The same is true for emotions. We must all learn to develop the habit of keeping our emotions in check. When we are feeling doubtful, or fearful, or angry, or any other emotion that is not what we need to be feeling in order to accomplish our goals.

If you go to gamble and feel fear of losing your money as you sit down to the table, you should get up and walk away. Instead, be confident about what you are doing. Instead of fearing the loss of the $100 you have, feel confident that you will get up and leave after you win $300.

This must be done in all areas of our lives. Fear losing something and you begin to manifest that reality. Be confident that you will get something, and you begin to manifest that reality instead.

But in order for us to do this, we must develop the habit of changing our thoughts and emotions when they don't serve us.

The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert

Sunday

The Secret To The Law Of Attraction

At Wealthy Life Secrets we often tell people about emotional addictions, but few people ever really study it or listen. I have written a book covering our physiological make up and how it hampers our ability to get results with the law of attraction.

One are that we constantly drill are our emotional addictions. Even today, after knowing and understanding this information and applying it to the law of attraction in my own life, I still have emotional addictions that I need to overcome and work on. But that's not necessarily the point.

The problem for many people when working with the law of attraction is that they never take the time to recognize their own emotional addictions. The secret to the law of attraction is recognizing and overcoming these emotional addictions in order to allow ourselves to maintain more positive emotions.

If we are addicted to negative emotions, we can't just flip a switch and be addicted to positive emotions. We have to learn to develop the habit of recognizing negative emotions in order to work on feeling positive emotions and developing those emotions as our addictions.

Work on your emotional addictions, and you instantly change what you attract.

The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert