This morning I went to bed at 2:30am. I was back up at 7am to get my son ready to go to school. Shortly after dropping him off at the front door, I found myself crawling back into bed to get some more rest instead of starting my day.
After a few minutes, I couldn't get my head to stop spinning as I thought about all the things I had to get done today. So I drug myself back out from under the warm, cozy, comfortable covers and went to get started on the long, never ending list of things that I have to do every day.
After hours of work, I finally got to the task on my list of writing a blog and I wondered what I would write about, and came to the conclusion that this was a good topic that many people need to think about.
Often times success is about doing those things that others won't do. It's getting out of bed and going on much less sleep than most people in order to do what needs to be done. It's doing those things that are uncomfortable when we would rather be doing something else instead.
Rich and successful people often times become successful and rich by what they do in their spare time in a garage, or a house office, or a dorm room. Develop the habit to do what others won't do, and success will surely be a part of your daily experience.
Wednesday
The Law Of Attraction And Mental Management
When working with the law of attraction, many people have trouble due to one simple concept. Their inability to manage their thoughts.
In order to get the best results with the law of attraction, it's important to learn how to manage your thoughts and your emotions. Those who think like losers will get loser results. Those who think like winners get winner results.
We must all learn to recognize when we are using poor thinking. When we are thinking in a way that does not serve where we want to go. If there is something you want, you must focus on using thoughts that are in alignment with what you want to accomplish.
The same is true for emotions. We must all learn to develop the habit of keeping our emotions in check. When we are feeling doubtful, or fearful, or angry, or any other emotion that is not what we need to be feeling in order to accomplish our goals.
If you go to gamble and feel fear of losing your money as you sit down to the table, you should get up and walk away. Instead, be confident about what you are doing. Instead of fearing the loss of the $100 you have, feel confident that you will get up and leave after you win $300.
This must be done in all areas of our lives. Fear losing something and you begin to manifest that reality. Be confident that you will get something, and you begin to manifest that reality instead.
But in order for us to do this, we must develop the habit of changing our thoughts and emotions when they don't serve us.
The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert
In order to get the best results with the law of attraction, it's important to learn how to manage your thoughts and your emotions. Those who think like losers will get loser results. Those who think like winners get winner results.
We must all learn to recognize when we are using poor thinking. When we are thinking in a way that does not serve where we want to go. If there is something you want, you must focus on using thoughts that are in alignment with what you want to accomplish.
The same is true for emotions. We must all learn to develop the habit of keeping our emotions in check. When we are feeling doubtful, or fearful, or angry, or any other emotion that is not what we need to be feeling in order to accomplish our goals.
If you go to gamble and feel fear of losing your money as you sit down to the table, you should get up and walk away. Instead, be confident about what you are doing. Instead of fearing the loss of the $100 you have, feel confident that you will get up and leave after you win $300.
This must be done in all areas of our lives. Fear losing something and you begin to manifest that reality. Be confident that you will get something, and you begin to manifest that reality instead.
But in order for us to do this, we must develop the habit of changing our thoughts and emotions when they don't serve us.
The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert
Sunday
The Secret To The Law Of Attraction
At Wealthy Life Secrets we often tell people about emotional addictions, but few people ever really study it or listen. I have written a book covering our physiological make up and how it hampers our ability to get results with the law of attraction.
One are that we constantly drill are our emotional addictions. Even today, after knowing and understanding this information and applying it to the law of attraction in my own life, I still have emotional addictions that I need to overcome and work on. But that's not necessarily the point.
The problem for many people when working with the law of attraction is that they never take the time to recognize their own emotional addictions. The secret to the law of attraction is recognizing and overcoming these emotional addictions in order to allow ourselves to maintain more positive emotions.
If we are addicted to negative emotions, we can't just flip a switch and be addicted to positive emotions. We have to learn to develop the habit of recognizing negative emotions in order to work on feeling positive emotions and developing those emotions as our addictions.
Work on your emotional addictions, and you instantly change what you attract.
The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert
One are that we constantly drill are our emotional addictions. Even today, after knowing and understanding this information and applying it to the law of attraction in my own life, I still have emotional addictions that I need to overcome and work on. But that's not necessarily the point.
The problem for many people when working with the law of attraction is that they never take the time to recognize their own emotional addictions. The secret to the law of attraction is recognizing and overcoming these emotional addictions in order to allow ourselves to maintain more positive emotions.
If we are addicted to negative emotions, we can't just flip a switch and be addicted to positive emotions. We have to learn to develop the habit of recognizing negative emotions in order to work on feeling positive emotions and developing those emotions as our addictions.
Work on your emotional addictions, and you instantly change what you attract.
The Law Of Attraction Expert,
Dwayne Gilbert
Tuesday
Have you ever wondered
Have you ever wondered what you are truly capable of? Seriously. Have you ever taken a moment to truly think about what is actually possible for one individual, for you. Of how much one person can actually impact the world and make it a better place due to intentionally applying oneself to ones full potential and ability.
I have, and I am constantly devoting myself to improving myself every day and in any way that I see I need to improve. Mostly it boils down to my thinking and how I use my mind 99% of the time. Usually it comes down to my thinking and my ability to open my mind just a little bit more in order to get out of my own way long enough to truly unleash my full potential and do and become everything I am capable of.
Most people never have the courage to face themselves. Most people will make up lies or excuses about who and what they are simply to avoid looking at who they really are. Most of us are not as horrible of a person as we fear we are. I believe that most people are afraid to admit that they aren't perfect, so to speak, just because that would mean that they have things to work on and don't have all the answers just as they are. The first trick is to admit that you don't know. That you don't know who you really are, what your capable of, and in many cases, what to do in order to understand both.
Find the courage within yourself to truly look at who you are and what you are capable of, and what you really need to do in order to become that person and you will be amazed at what you are capable of doing. You will be amazed to find that you can do things with your body and your mind that even you will be astounded by. You will find that there is much, much more within you than you ever thought possible, and that by applying what is within you that you will be able to accomplish more magic in a single minute of your life than most people will ever accomplish within their entire lifetime.
Wealth and Abundance,
Dwayne Gilbert
I have, and I am constantly devoting myself to improving myself every day and in any way that I see I need to improve. Mostly it boils down to my thinking and how I use my mind 99% of the time. Usually it comes down to my thinking and my ability to open my mind just a little bit more in order to get out of my own way long enough to truly unleash my full potential and do and become everything I am capable of.
Most people never have the courage to face themselves. Most people will make up lies or excuses about who and what they are simply to avoid looking at who they really are. Most of us are not as horrible of a person as we fear we are. I believe that most people are afraid to admit that they aren't perfect, so to speak, just because that would mean that they have things to work on and don't have all the answers just as they are. The first trick is to admit that you don't know. That you don't know who you really are, what your capable of, and in many cases, what to do in order to understand both.
Find the courage within yourself to truly look at who you are and what you are capable of, and what you really need to do in order to become that person and you will be amazed at what you are capable of doing. You will be amazed to find that you can do things with your body and your mind that even you will be astounded by. You will find that there is much, much more within you than you ever thought possible, and that by applying what is within you that you will be able to accomplish more magic in a single minute of your life than most people will ever accomplish within their entire lifetime.
Wealth and Abundance,
Dwayne Gilbert
Fear Is The Root Of All Evil, Not Money.
I often hear people, especially people who have no money, that money is the root of all evil. I never did understand this statement and I want to give you a different perspective on the whole thing. First of all, money itself is nothing more than paper. It's not money that is the root of all evil. In fact, that's not even what the bible says. The bible says that the LOVE of money is the root of all evil. This has two sides to it.
First of all, the love of money is the desire to have material things. Many people desire material things not for the added value they give to their life, but for the image those things present to the world about that person. For some reason, we have come to believe that what we have dictates who we are. This is not only foolish, but it's completely absurd.
Second of all, the love of money comes from fear, the most dangerous emotion that exists in all of mankind. The fear again comes from the belief that what we have is a reflection of who we are. The fear that not having that big house, or that car, or designer clothing will some how make us less of a person. That it will take away from our core essence. This again is not only foolish and untrue, but completely absurd.
Anger, violence, hate, frustration. They are all extensions of nothing but fear. We get angry because we fear that we will not get what we want or we fear that someone is some how going to take a piece of who we are from us. As though something intangible such as our personality can be taken away.
People also get violent out of fear. Sometimes fear can be good and keep us alive. Such as when someone tries to physically harm us or take us out of the world and we defend ourselves out of fear in order to stay alive. Often times though, people get violent out of fear. A fear again that someone who says something negative about us, or toward us is trying to harm us. It's important to understand that people can never take a part of our personality that we don't first give to them. Negative comments toward us, and fear about losing a piece of ourselves is nothing more than an illusion of our minds.
Frustration happens when we fear that something or someone will not do exactly as we wish. When we want something quicker or differently than it is. We fear that we have lost control, (control that we never truly had anyway) over specific things or situations or people. Again, another foolish idea to cling to when all that we ever have any control over at all is ourselves, our minds, and our responses to the world and people around us.
Hate is an extension of anger, violence, and frustration. It comes from prolonged negative emotions that come from fear. Eventually we fear something long enough that we develop complete disgust for that situation, person, or thing.
Fear is one of the biggest and quickest stops when it comes to getting results with the law of attraction. Fear that we won't get what we want, which of course creates exactly that, us not getting what we want. Fear that we aren't good enough. Fear that we won't find a way to manifest and attract that which we want. Fear of a million different things.
Be sure to monitor your fear, your anger, your frustration, your emotions that evolve from fear. Be sure to push fear and all of it's relatives as far from your mind as possible. The guided meditations in the full Wealthy Life Secrets Mastery Program are designed to help you control your mind in a more powerful way in order to avoid allowing fear to enter into your reality. Use them on a regular basis to gain control over the demon of fear.
Wealth and Abundance,
Dwayne Gilbert
First of all, the love of money is the desire to have material things. Many people desire material things not for the added value they give to their life, but for the image those things present to the world about that person. For some reason, we have come to believe that what we have dictates who we are. This is not only foolish, but it's completely absurd.
Second of all, the love of money comes from fear, the most dangerous emotion that exists in all of mankind. The fear again comes from the belief that what we have is a reflection of who we are. The fear that not having that big house, or that car, or designer clothing will some how make us less of a person. That it will take away from our core essence. This again is not only foolish and untrue, but completely absurd.
Anger, violence, hate, frustration. They are all extensions of nothing but fear. We get angry because we fear that we will not get what we want or we fear that someone is some how going to take a piece of who we are from us. As though something intangible such as our personality can be taken away.
People also get violent out of fear. Sometimes fear can be good and keep us alive. Such as when someone tries to physically harm us or take us out of the world and we defend ourselves out of fear in order to stay alive. Often times though, people get violent out of fear. A fear again that someone who says something negative about us, or toward us is trying to harm us. It's important to understand that people can never take a part of our personality that we don't first give to them. Negative comments toward us, and fear about losing a piece of ourselves is nothing more than an illusion of our minds.
Frustration happens when we fear that something or someone will not do exactly as we wish. When we want something quicker or differently than it is. We fear that we have lost control, (control that we never truly had anyway) over specific things or situations or people. Again, another foolish idea to cling to when all that we ever have any control over at all is ourselves, our minds, and our responses to the world and people around us.
Hate is an extension of anger, violence, and frustration. It comes from prolonged negative emotions that come from fear. Eventually we fear something long enough that we develop complete disgust for that situation, person, or thing.
Fear is one of the biggest and quickest stops when it comes to getting results with the law of attraction. Fear that we won't get what we want, which of course creates exactly that, us not getting what we want. Fear that we aren't good enough. Fear that we won't find a way to manifest and attract that which we want. Fear of a million different things.
Be sure to monitor your fear, your anger, your frustration, your emotions that evolve from fear. Be sure to push fear and all of it's relatives as far from your mind as possible. The guided meditations in the full Wealthy Life Secrets Mastery Program are designed to help you control your mind in a more powerful way in order to avoid allowing fear to enter into your reality. Use them on a regular basis to gain control over the demon of fear.
Wealth and Abundance,
Dwayne Gilbert
Wednesday
The Power Of Love
Love is a very powerful force. It is one of the highest vibrations we can feel on the emotional spectrum. That is why almost everyone is looking for it. It causes our bodies to sing and our minds to realize possibilities that weren't present before love entered our lives. Love is a force that can move mountains, or get in the way of progress.
It's important to not only be loved, but to love in return. The more we are able to love, not just someone we want to be with, but other people and things as much as possible, the closer to understanding the universe we get, and the closer to having what we want we get. Love is a vibration that attracts things to us at an amazing rate.
We must learn to live in a state of constant love. Try this the next time you are driving and find yourself behind someone who angers you. Instead of yelling at the car in front of you to get out or your way, or any other form of negative emotion, remember to calm down for a moment. After you have calmed yourself, put a smile on your face and softly say I love you as you begin to see the car turning off or getting into the other lane in your mind. As you do this, begin to feel the feelings of love. What you will find is that the highway or road will open up in front of you very quickly. The vibration of love allows the universe to open up for us and offer opportunity and insight that would not have been there other wise.
Remember to live in a constant state of love. Remember the power of love. Remember to love, and you will begin to recognize your entire world changing by leaps and bounds.
It's important to not only be loved, but to love in return. The more we are able to love, not just someone we want to be with, but other people and things as much as possible, the closer to understanding the universe we get, and the closer to having what we want we get. Love is a vibration that attracts things to us at an amazing rate.
We must learn to live in a state of constant love. Try this the next time you are driving and find yourself behind someone who angers you. Instead of yelling at the car in front of you to get out or your way, or any other form of negative emotion, remember to calm down for a moment. After you have calmed yourself, put a smile on your face and softly say I love you as you begin to see the car turning off or getting into the other lane in your mind. As you do this, begin to feel the feelings of love. What you will find is that the highway or road will open up in front of you very quickly. The vibration of love allows the universe to open up for us and offer opportunity and insight that would not have been there other wise.
Remember to live in a constant state of love. Remember the power of love. Remember to love, and you will begin to recognize your entire world changing by leaps and bounds.
There Is Always A Consequence
Today I was faced numerous times with the consequences of a decision I recently made. The decision I made is one that moves me closer to where I want to be and what I want to accomplish. However, there is always a cost for every decision. There is always a consequence to pay for what we decide to do. There is always a cost. As they say, nothing in life is free. It doesn't always cost money, but there is always a price for everything.
The decision that I recently made was simple. There is a woman I have been friends with for a couple of months now, and we have developed emotions for one another over the last few weeks. We decided to make a commitment to one another. Sounds simple enough right. Well, here is the catch. There is another woman I was talking to and becoming friends with that had romantic intentions. I told her from the get go that there was no promise and that I wasn't rushing into anything and that I wasn't really looking for a relationship. She had done me a couple of favors, and now feels betrayed because I decided to date another woman. I wasn't misleading or dishonest about any of it, but the cost there was a friendship.
Another catch to my situation is the fact that a mentor of mine has eyes for the woman I started dating. Now I have to tell him that I we are seeing one another. I am sure it will go well, however, I am concerned that it may offend him for not telling him last week when the relationship started. I had no idea he had an interest in her when he asked her out, so I figured it didn't matter if he knew about us or not. Now I have to have a conversation and tell him about the two of us. Again, the cost there may be a friendship, though he is a bigger man than that.
The point is simple. No matter what we decide to do, or where we decide to go, there is always a price to pay. There is always something we are giving up to get something else. There is always something we are losing out on to keep what we have. There is always a price of some sort. Always, and we must be willing to pay the price for what we want, or be willing to pay the price for not going after what we want. In the end it comes down to us being willing to do what it takes to get what we want.
The decision that I recently made was simple. There is a woman I have been friends with for a couple of months now, and we have developed emotions for one another over the last few weeks. We decided to make a commitment to one another. Sounds simple enough right. Well, here is the catch. There is another woman I was talking to and becoming friends with that had romantic intentions. I told her from the get go that there was no promise and that I wasn't rushing into anything and that I wasn't really looking for a relationship. She had done me a couple of favors, and now feels betrayed because I decided to date another woman. I wasn't misleading or dishonest about any of it, but the cost there was a friendship.
Another catch to my situation is the fact that a mentor of mine has eyes for the woman I started dating. Now I have to tell him that I we are seeing one another. I am sure it will go well, however, I am concerned that it may offend him for not telling him last week when the relationship started. I had no idea he had an interest in her when he asked her out, so I figured it didn't matter if he knew about us or not. Now I have to have a conversation and tell him about the two of us. Again, the cost there may be a friendship, though he is a bigger man than that.
The point is simple. No matter what we decide to do, or where we decide to go, there is always a price to pay. There is always something we are giving up to get something else. There is always something we are losing out on to keep what we have. There is always a price of some sort. Always, and we must be willing to pay the price for what we want, or be willing to pay the price for not going after what we want. In the end it comes down to us being willing to do what it takes to get what we want.
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